Parenting (and Working) in a Pandemic

The skills needed to parent in this quarantined, Zoom-dependent, coronavirus-driven "new normal".

Parenting has always been a challenge.

Under normal circumstances, the average parent is over-worked, under-slept, perpetually worried, and stressed to the point of visible aging. This was true long before we ever heard of the coronavirus.

We now refer to that life as “the good old days”.

Courtesy of the pandemic, parents now have to navigate a wide variety of different responsibilities, trading our “parent” hat for ones that say “teacher”, “bouncer”, “triage nurse”, and more. This talk helps you prepare to perform each of these roles without having a teacher’s license, years of self-defense training, or a medical degree. For each role, you’ll get the wisdom of experts who are actually in that field, a guide for how to apply this knowledge to parenting, and a quick list of tips and tricks of the trade that will help you and your kids survive the pandemic as smoothly as possible.

Be Your Own Mother

Learning how to parent ourselves is a necessary skill for those of us with tiny humans depending on our stability..

Whether you had the best mom in the world, you came from a dysfunctional parent-child relationship, or you practically raised yourself, you are now a parent.  You've seen first-hand the importance of mothering.

Even though we're focused on mothering our own children, the need to be "parented" never actually goes away.  Just like tying your shoes, remembering a jacket, and driving places, mothering becomes one of those skills that healthy, functional adults do for themselves, regardless of your relationship with your actual mother.

Learning how to mother yourself will give you a better understanding of what it means to be a mother, a happier and more stable outlook on your own life, and an increased ability to be the parent your own kids need.

Chief Parental Officer (CPO)

Parenting Secrets from the World of Business Psychology: How the strategies used to run the world's most successful companies can make you a better and more sane parent.

A common inside joke in the field of psychology is that childhood or educational psychologists often have the most messed up kids.  Similarly, many parenting books may tell you what meconium is or the specific hormones that get released in puberty, yet leave you utterly unprepared to actually raise a child.

This talk introduces the concept of framework-based parenting, leveraging the strategies that top executives and business psychologists use to run Fortune 500 companies to help you raise your mischievous progeny. 

You will leave with a set of overarching principles that can be applied to almost any parenting situation, a few specific examples (that almost every parent has faced), and a renewed hope that you might survive until bedtime without shame-eating Oreos in the back of your closet.

I Used to Be a Real Human

How to balance being a parent with your work demands, household chaos, and actual adult life.

The hardest part about being a parent isn't the midnight feedings, the potty training accidents, or the teenage hormones.  It's the instantaneous transformation from being your own person to being "so-and-so's mom".

Even though parenting is the most important job we do, it's rarely the only thing on our plates.  We have jobs, marriages, houses to manage, finances to maintain, careers, and ambitions that don't involve finding your kid's shoes before the schoolbus gets there.

This talk helps parents find that balance where they know they're showing up 100% for their children, but they don't have to sacrifice everything that made them an individual before their name was "mom".